We live in a world that puts a lot of significance on our outward appearance. If you’re feeling insecure about yourself, you’re not alone. In fact, 30% of Americans feel negatively about their body image overall. You’re probably thinking, “That’s not a shocking statistic.” Sadly, there is a lot of pressure to obtain the ideal body for a multitude of reasons like social media, diet culture, and even interactions with others. In that case, why not shower your loved ones with non-physical compliments?
There isn’t anything inherently wrong with complimenting someone’s appearance. Comments like “I love your style!” or “You look lovely today!” can be greatly appreciated! However, we need to be careful not to make someone feel like their self-worth is based on how they look. Besides, there are so many interesting things about us that go beyond physical appearance.
I’m writing this post during the holiday season. It’s a time when we see a lot of our family and friends. Let’s all be mindful about how we speak to others…particularly kids and teens who are at a sensitive period in their lives. Make your loved ones smile and show them your appreciation with sincere non-physical compliments that have nothing to do with looks! ✨
Importance of Non-Physical Compliments:
They help with body acceptance.
Body acceptance is exactly what it sounds like: accepting your body at its current state. As my therapist always tells me, you don’t have to love how you look right now, but you should make an effort to be kind to yourself. Part of that is through acceptance. You’d be helping promote body acceptance with meaningful compliments that aren’t appearance based!
It’s good to switch things up!
We are more than our appearance. While complimenting someone’s eyes or outfit is a nice gesture, why not look past just the surface? It’s truly a paradigm shift given how body image plays such an intense role in our society. Looks aside, complimenting someone about their great sense of humor or taste in books is just as awesome!
Non-physical compliments are meaningful.
Non-physical compliments show you appreciate someone on a deeper level. Everyone needs people in their lives that truly celebrate them for who they are. So why not be your people’s biggest cheerleader? 💕
Don’t be shy about giving them!
I know sometimes giving compliments can make us feel cheesy or awkward. But really think about the last time someone said something kind and genuine about you as a person. I bet it made you feel happy and likely stuck with you. That memory is what you would be giving someone else in your life! The truth is everyone wants to feel appreciated by the people around them.
And there are also plenty of non-physical compliments you can give someone that you don’t know very well. Just like with physical compliments, make sure they are respectful and you’re all good!
80 Non-Physical Compliments To Give Someone
1. Your laugh is contagious. I love it!
2. You’re a great listener. I feel heard when I’m around you.
3. You are a kind person.
4. I feel inspired by you.
5. You’re funny. You crack me up!
6. I look up to you.
7. You always give the best advice.
8. I’m lucky you’re in my life.
9. I could talk to you for hours and never be bored!
10. You’re like a capybara…you have a way of making people feel welcome!
11. You’re strong.
12. You’re a wonderful friend.
13. You give amazing hugs. Thank you!
14. You’re passionate.
15. I care about your opinion.
16. You always know what to say to lift my spirits.
17. You make me smile.
18. I love spending time with you.
19. I feel your support and encouragement.
20. You make me feel comfortable to be myself.
21. I wish more people were like you.
22. I’m happy we met.
23. Your taste in music is epic.
24. I trust you.
25. I feel like I’ve known you forever.
26. Time flies when we’re together.
27. There’s no one else like you.
28. You brighten my day.
29. I admire how hard-working you are.
30. You’re talented!
31. Your gifts are always thoughtful.
32. You’re so organized. How do you do it?
33. My dog/cat/turtle absolutely LOVES you!
34. It’s cool knowing someone as creative as you.
35. You’re one smart cookie!
36. You’re wise.
37. I’m in awe of your confidence.
38. Your outlook on life is admirable.
39. I love how open-minded and non-judgmental you are.
40. I’m incredibly proud of you.
41. I’m happy you’re here.
42. You’re doing a great job!
43. I always brag about you to people!
44. The world is a better place with you in it.
45. You’re resilient. I see you’ve overcome a lot.
46. You’re a fantastic cook! Your food always tastes delicious.
47. I’m learning a lot from you.
48. You’re generous.
49. You’re brave.
50. You smell good!
51. You’re always polite to servers and a good tipper!
52. You’re excellent at communicating.
53. You’re a fantastic parent (or pet parent!)
54. I know I will have fun when you’re there.
55. I feel safe around you.
56. Your book recommendations are the best!
57. You always have great ideas.
58. You’re charismatic. Your energy is magnetic!
59. You’re like a ray of sunshine!
60. You’re a leader.
61. You have a soothing voice.
62. You’re good at setting boundaries with people.
63. I know I can depend on you.
64. Your taste in décor is amazing…Martha Stewart would be jealous!
65. You’re adventurous.
66. You’re good at sports. You’re athletic!
67. You have a nice singing voice.
68. I feel calm when you’re here.
69. You have a big heart.
70. Animals love you…and they know best!
71. Your movie and TV show recommendations are always spot-on.
72. You’re a good writer.
73. You have a bubbly personality!
74. Woah, you’re an amazing dancer!
75. I go to you when I need help with anything tech-related.
76. I’ve noticed you’re resourceful.
77. Thank you for being so understanding.
78. You’re down to earth.
79. I wouldn’t want to be stuck on a desert island…but if I were, I’d choose you to be stuck there with!
80. You’re great exactly as you are.
That’s it for today’s post. Thanks for reading, everyone! Enjoy the rest of your week. And if you’re reading this near the time that I posted, have a happy, safe, and healthy holiday season! x
What are some of the kindest non-physical compliments you’ve received? How did they make you feel?
great list Nunzia! i really like telling my husband he works hard cause usually he thinks he doesnt!
Hi Kiki!! 😊 Aww that’s a really sweet compliment. Hope you’re doing well, happy holidays!!